Nobody know you better than you know yourself. The problem is that people do not want to face yourself, so they face someone else.
Your soul is suffering when you replace yourself with someone else.

Before you start to define others you will need to define yourself first. And that can be the most complicated challenge.
You always expressing yourself one way or another. Your expression is your possession.
If you don’t challenge yourself you will challenge someone else. Someone has to suffer.

You and someone else can not exist in your inner body. Someone has to win. When someone else win, you start to lose the body you once had.

The minute you lost your body, you lost inner self. Inner self can not exist within a lost body.
It is time to find your inner self.